Date Three

Last night (and into this morning since I didn’t get home til around 2am) I had my third date with he-who-needs-a-blog-nickname. Before we met I’d been calling him perfect on paper, which he is but the initials are POP which isn’t going to work for me. I’ve been toying with a few options I even let him weigh in but we are at an impasse.

Anyway, back to last night!

He is a very private person and I’m more of an open book type. We’d already noted this difference on previous dates so last night I made a proposal. I admitted that in addition to being more open I was also curious/nosy. So I proposed I be able to ask prying questions with the understanding he could not answer them. Neither of us could be offended by the asking or the not answering. Not only did he agree, he actually loved it (ok that might be projecting just a bit, but he did like it).

So then I followed up later with a question about something I’d been curious about (no details he’s a very private person remember) and when I was trying to thank him for answering and said it wasn’t any of my business he corrected me. He corrected me by saying that while it may not be exactly just my business certain things are going to become our business. I’m paraphrasing its hard to remember the exact quote on two hours of sleep but it’s the spirit of the thing that matters and he definitely said our!

We’ve also had the this is so freaking weird to feel so comfortable with someone so soon conversation. And the oh by the way I suck and ruin shit conversation (I said it better in person). We’ve had a lot of conversations in a short amount of time and again it’s crazy crazy crazy.